The Top Reasons for Financial Secrets and Big Conversations During Home-Buying
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Buying a home is one of the most important financial decisions you can make in life. It is a significant investment and requires careful planning and consideration. Unfortunately, many couples end up arguing while looking for a home to buy together, with nearly a quarter of British homeowners (22%) having split up with a partner while searching for a place. According to research from Zoopla, young Brits are the worst culprits, with more than six in ten under-25s who are lucky enough to own a home (61%) having broken up with a partner while looking for a place to buy together.
The research found that financial secrets coming to light during the home-search process (34%) and the need to have big conversations about the future - such as whether kids are on the agenda (19%) - were the top reasons for this. Meanwhile, a lack of planning was also a key factor, with Brits on average spending more time planning a holiday - 7.8 hours - than they do planning the search for a home - 5.5 hours. This is despite the average home costing 200 times more than the average holiday.
Arguments over money were a serious issue for couples when buying homes - even if they didn’t split up. Nearly half (47%) of those who have bought a home with their partner quarrelled - with four in ten of all couples (40%) saying they disagreed about finances. As a result of not discussing it beforehand, three in ten (30%) of those polled say they or their partner made incorrect assumptions about who was paying what. Among them, 87% said it was about how much they would each be putting into the deposit, while even more (89%) said it was about how much of the mortgage they would each pay.
Given the cost of moving home is usually many thousands of pounds, a lack of planning can be a costly mistake. That’s why Zoopla has created a guide on how to harmoniously house hunt, which includes tools such as an online mortgage calculator and map search, tips from a life coach, and a checklist for all the conversations couples need to have before they start to look for a home.
It is essential that couples have open and honest conversations about finances and other important topics before they start looking for a home. This can help them to avoid arguments and disagreements during the process, and ensure they are both on the same page with regards to their financial commitments. By doing so, couples can ensure they are making the right decision for both of them and that they are both happy with the outcome.